The Becoming You Show with Leah Roling: 145. Let Them... But don't let that be it.

We celebrate sacrifice when it comes to physical strength.
We don’t flinch at discomfort when it gets us results.
We know that becoming strong means showing up, sweating, and staying in it.

But when it comes to emotional strength?
We soften the message. We avoid the weight.

In this powerful episode, Leah explores the brilliance of the “Let Them” theory—a liberating concept that reminds us we can’t control others. And while it's a freeing starting point, it’s just that—a start.

Because logic alone can’t solve emotional pain.

You’ll hear the story of a client navigating betrayal, silence, and a swirl of unprocessed feelings. What began as “letting them” quickly revealed deeper truths—about unmet needs, mirrored behavior, and the kind of self-abandonment that often hides behind our highest intentions.

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve told yourself to “just let it go,” but still feel stuck.
  
  
• You want to understand what your emotions are really trying to say.
  
  
• You’re ready to stop outsourcing strength and start building it—emotionally, internally, and powerfully.
  
  

You don’t get stronger watching someone else lift.
And you don’t get free by bypassing your own heart.

“Let Them” is a beautiful boundary.
But emotional growth? That’s an invitation to go deeper.